I have a socket in my helm will edit my post,grasp of the dead because rng hates me,I had to reroll one of the other stats.
Do you put an XP gem in the helm or switch it around? BTW you helped me build a pretty nice beast just using pieces I had stashed and then the skills you suggested:
Head :Mask of Jeram Socket (80% pet damage, int, resist all, xp gem)
Shoulders : Aughild's Power (int, vit, %Life,14% zombie dogs)
Bracers : Aughild's Search (Fire 16%, int, vit, 6% Crit)
Chest : Helltooth 3 Sockets (int ,resist all, 12% fetish army)
Gloves : Magefist (20% Fire, int, vit, IAS 6%, 10% crit) <- never thought about using this on WD
Belt : Witching Hour (int, resist all, IAS 7%, crit dmg 41%)
Pants : Helltooth 2 Sockets (int, armor)
Boots : Firwalkers (int, vit, movement speed, Firebats 14%)
Amulet : Haunt of Vaxo (Int, IAS 7%, 9% crit chance, 96% crit dmg)
Right Ring : RoRG (int, IAS 6%, 10% life, 49% critd dmg)
Left Ring : The Tall Man's Finger (int ,6% crit, LoH,...)
Weapon : The Gidbinn (Int, 10% cooldown, extra fetishes) <- been trying different weapons but this one seems to win right now
Off Hand : Thing of the Deep (dmg, int, vit, crit chance 9.5%, 14% fetish army)
I don't have a SoJ but the RRoG gives me a nice bonus for Aughild's.
Edit: for grins, I geared my follower up to 570K dps - not sure if she puts a dent in ol' Grom but it was fun.