quadrotony
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i already have a girlfriend and i working in diablo 3, botting etc to get money for wedding, thats all
Thank you for this advice. Can you give me some examples of "passions" you have? I mainly play video games and read sci fi books (Ender's Game series) and like to argue about politics online. I have lots of passions about those. But I don't think the ladies like to argue about politics.
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Does this stuff really work good?? I read Neil Strauss' book "The Game" and even though he succeeded at picking up women easily, he ended up with crappy relationships and mostly being awesome only to other men "PUA"s. Plus I don't think I can afford it unless the price of gold goes up a bit LOL
I can't tell you what to be passionate about, because if it's not a part of who you really are, then you're not doing it right. I could tell you what I'm passionate about, but not only do I not want to give you an Idea that isn't your own, but if I were to list and explain them all, it would just be something "TLDR" to most people. Just know that mood is something that can be swayed, and it can also be evoked. The same as laughter is contagious. If you didn't get the hint by now. I'm telling you to learn to enjoy life first and foremost. Once you enjoy life you'll naturally want more of it, this is when you'll really develop a passion for things. Along with that learn to be the type of person were if you walk into a room, people can't help but smile.(this can take several years to develop.) Even if it's with just your friends. And no this doesn't mean you have to be the "funny" guy, or the guy who's always making people laugh. You don't have to laugh nor do you have to make others laugh to evoke happiness. As long as you actually are happy, the energy from the things you do and the words you say will sway those around you, and people won't be able to help but smile. But before this can happen, you need to find reasons for yourself to be happy, don't lie to yourself about being happy, if you don't have any reasons to be happy right now, then make reasons to be happy. i.e. If you're unhealthy and it makes you unhappy, then it's time to take matter into your own hands and change your diet, and exercise more. Never be desperate to be happy, but be happy to have changed and made progress.(this only applies of course if you do manage to make change and progress towards it.) All of this stuff takes years to learn and a lifetime to develop, but once you're there, you can go up to just about anyone in this case any girl, and within seconds, she's smiling at you because your happiness is so contagious and your confidence is so seductive. See, doing things is never that hard, it's the learning to do things that take the most effort, because once you learn how to do something, doing it becomes second nature. Why is confidence sexy? It's sexy because it evokes the idea that you know what you're doing. Therefore if you pretend to be confident in something that you're not, you don't actually know what you're doing, and it's really not that hard to tell if someone knows what they're doing or not. The best way to be confident in something is to have a passion for it. And to have a passion for something, you have to enjoy it, therefore if you enjoy life, you'll naturally be passionate for many things, and with passion you learn to be confident. And to have confidence means you know how to do something and you know how to do it well, which to any gender, is attractive. Which is why just about everyone who's giving you advice, no matter what the advice is, whether it's "whipping out your cock" as stated by Smurg or "subtly" telling her you bot as stated by grinch12, whether they typed it down or not they're all telling you to do it with confidence. But in all seriousness, confidence isn't something you can just use, it's something you have to earn.
tell them you own cotton plantation with workers working 24/7 making you money
^ go get a hobby learn a skill.
Cooking hiking fishing sky or something.
Girls and gfs and just e medal ach you get for being good at rest of the stuff.
That. Nothing will make you appear more attractive to a woman, than describing yourself as a cotton slave overlord. Fact.