Really? I could literally copy/paste my previous post to answer this one, since you actually are saying the same thing in a slightly different way, without answering any counterarguments. I'll change the phrasing a little bit though, in the hopes that it'll get through.
We get that you think the store worked out poorly for HB, and don't want the same thing to happen here. What you don't seem to understand is that the situations aren't the same. At the time HB had a larger playerbase, larger pool of developers, and a more established foundation. You're correct that RB certainly isn't handicapped, but it could definitely benefit much more from increased developer attention. The downsides that you mentioned in regards to pricing and inferior products are not faults of the concept of a store, just how it was done. I've said it (twice) before, but it seems I have to once more,
a good idea implemented poorly is not the same as a bad idea. Purchasing digital products isn't really all that innovative or scary unless you've never used an app store.
In regards to features, RB works pretty well, but that doesn't mean it can't be better. 'More development' doesn't have to mean dungeon or pvp bots like you're assuming, which I don't necessarily want either, but stuff like "CR or crafting or questing or TT or racing". And if you think the CR's work 'quite well', I'm really wondering if you've ever played anything other than physical dps outside of dungeons or Echo'd content.
In addition, limiting RB isn't going to help when other FFXIV bots don't. I've used other FFXIV bots in the past that do more than RB, because they care less about being caught. You yourself said that 'botting is not for main stream people with weak stomaches', which means you understand that botters will tend to put features ahead of caution. Other bots won't shy away from dungeons or pvp or hacks, and the less RB offers, the more botters will use competitors. Leading to a larger number of people using unsafe bots, getting banned and drawing the very attention you're so desperate to avoid.
As for the actual development of the store, well, I'm not going to pretend to know the workings or resources of the buddy team. I would assume that increased revenue from a store means they could have someone else for quality control, but ultimately if they decide it's not worth the time, then that's their decision. I'm not arguing for immediate implementation, just that it is a concept worth considering.
You keep talking about a golden age of HB where 'devs did it for free because they were learning and enjoyed other people who used their work'. I have my doubts about the accuracy of that memory, but in any case it is a gross misunderstanding of the situation here. You're living in a fantastical world where community devs have infinite time to cater to our needs. Here in reality, while they do act out of a desire to help, they have their own lives to live and bills to pay. They get far more complaints than compensation, and hard work is taken for granted (for reference, see this
https://www.thebuddyforum.com/rebornbuddy-forum/215885-rb-buddy-store-2.html#post1978439)
You've mentioned people making money they don't deserve off the store. What about the devs who do deserve it? They certainly aren't getting anything as things are.