sorry wizzardpt, but i have to agree with him, while i believe grammar is not important as long as other persons can understand what you are saying/asking,
in this case your first post was very vague, i could find at least 7 different meanings for your "question", someone with higher social IQ and that is native English speaker, would probably find even more possible meanings for your "question"
if you have spent at least 1 more minute rewriting your question more people could understand your question, and you might get answer sooner
also he did not insult you, just gave you constructive feedback to improve your question, so your insult of him was not really nice ...