Ps3 has far less users and attracts an older croud, which makes pretty much all multilayer games easier cuz those damn little kids got skillz. Ps3 network is not as user friendly as xbox I have found. Ps3 controller feels very 90's, some like it, some dont, most dont. A far as controller response goes, for either system you should go wired if you are that concerned with it, they seem to have the same latency when wireless. Dunno, I find myself playing xbox alot more than ps3, im not sure why.